How to be happy..

OK..ehmm..wana try blog sum not lawak bodoh blog...
I found this sort of list of things to do 2 be happy...

http://www.rogerdarlington.me.uk/Happy.html

I then start to think think..what are the things that can really make me happy?
as i read tru the list, i find some of it true, but most of it abit untrue oso..maybe to me la..no doubt the suggestions are things that can make some of us happy...

- laugh alot, smile alot

its good to smile and laugh, but there must be a reason..bo dai bo ji laugh ppl think u siao 1... if you laugh n smile too much, people might not take you seriously oso...
u laugh when u r happy, but to be happy u laugh alot?? apa ni..

laugh, smile -------> happy-------->laugh, smile (vicious cycle)

- give lots of compliment
please give compliment yang berpatutan...if some1 is clearly not pretty, dun go try n convince her that she is pretty...people shud noe the truth about themselve so that they can improve themselves..you wun wana go make some1 feel so good about themself but in the end its not true..

-Give small gifts to your friends. To give is even more pleasurable than to receive.

Sure ka??who dun like to receive present? sila angkat tangan...giving i dun deny can sometimes give you pleasure...i oso feel happyby giving small surprise gifts 2 frens jus 2 see their happy face.. but it is even happier when some frens give me surprise gifts..hehe..(hint hint)

-Wear the most expensive after-shave (usually men!) or perfume (usually women!!) you can afford. It will make you feel good.
Siao...sabun can dy la..not all ppl can take perfume wad.could be other's poison...

-Stay close to nature
haha..tried..plant mini ikea bamboo and ternak seamonkey...end up, bamboo mati, sea monkey from 30 bcum 1...happy?? not reeli....but if nature trips then different la..ehe

-Treat yourself often to something 'cheap and cheerful'
Hmm..dis 1 quite true la..have to sometimes pamper urself n buy stg for urself 2 be happy...

-Take lots of photos
agree..agree...best if can write a blog...haha..like dis 1..

- keep a diary
better pray it is not read by others till u die...for those who have the habit of reading other's diary, pleasee...pleaaseee..dont...

-still got alot of bodoh 1 dat i lazy 2 quote...

-"However, if you follow all these suggestions and you're still not happy, you're either an android or an alien. In the former case, see an electronics engineer. In the latter case, go home to your own planet."

apani..what u think can make u happy doesn't mean it'll make others happy ei..what every1 look for is different...

things that can make me happy:

-MONEY...$$$
- buying gadgets..hoho...
- when i am right...
- doing some stupid thing that other ppl dun do...kepuasan...
- getting compliment that i myself think is correct..
- realising that some fela that i alwiz tot is better than me but is actually not..hoho...
- when i'm in control
- when i'm appreciated
- when everything i did is worth is...
- when i find ppl that have the same interest as me...(quite hard 2 find dei..)
- when i realise my friends care..

alot of ppl keep asking me how come i can be happy everyday n looks as if i have no worries at all??

- first u must WANT to be happy...some ppl prefers to be miserable..n kept blaming the world...the rest of the world dun owe u...(e.g, if a friend brings u to a party, she is not responsible for taking care of u the whole night jus because u duno any1 else...) u'll feel better if u can accept that..

- live life as it comes...life planning is good, but planning is not worrying..dun go worry about things that cant change or things that has not happen or cry about some results that are not out yet...

- care but don't care too much...be part of something...most important keep in touch with ur friends..some ppl have the thinking (cieh, they oso dun keep in touch with me lo...) every1 lidat no1 will keep in touch dy..dun underestimate how friends can make u happy...

- be positive..think of what is the worst that can happen...so what if it happens..20 years later it'll just be a joke 2 u...

- find new interests u and find what u actually like to do...n do...

- although i kutuk jus now, but laugh n smile n play more can make me happy..haha..although sometimes ppl get irritated, but...sorry..haha..

- another method is to be saturated with problems..after u go tru alot of problems, not much things can make u unhappy liao..haha...i now higher level oredi...

there are certain things that alwiz fluctutate...such as relationship...can b super happy n super sad..(standard deviation very high 1).. dis 1 kenot advise liao..i oso kekantoian 1...

or relationship with frens n ppl around..dat 1 i kenot control n kenot guarantee happy 1..hehe..jus need 2 choose ur friend correctly or at least let the correct friend choose you.

WHAT i DUn LIKE:
- to be ignored
- to feel stupid
- to feel intimidated
- to not be in control
- to be lack of confidence

Sori if blog memboringkan..first try, sempena Hari Raya...maaf zahir dan batin